After all, when you’ve been a homemaker and SAHM for, well, a very long time, you don’t exactly stay up to date on technology.
For the first few weeks of my new blogging life, my 14-year-old daughter attached the pictures. Finally I decided I would have to learn, regardless of how painful learning was. She let me “drive” the computer, and after two quick lessons, I got it.
I’ll never forget the first few times I tried to link one of my blog posts to a linky party. The little online form asked for the link address – that wasn’t hard, I copy and pasted it in.
There were over 400 "links" attached to this linky party. That's a whole lotta bloggers trying to party.
The next line asked for name. I thought they meant my name. Everything I made or redid was titled “Mary.”
There were over 400 "links" attached to this linky party. That's a whole lotta bloggers trying to party.
The next line asked for name. I thought they meant my name. Everything I made or redid was titled “Mary.”
Mary
I finally realized that everyone else was putting the “name” of what they had made, painted, whatever.
Spring wreath
Kitchen remodel
Not their first name. Are ya laughin’ yet?
Trying to attach a picture to these linky parties proved to be nearly impossible. Some of the parties accepted my pictures; some didn’t, claiming my megabites were too big.
I soon learned which parties would take my (obviously) huge photos, and I only linked to those.
One day, several months into blogging, someone gave a tutorial on downsizing pics. Click, click, click, and I got it. Now I can post my pics on anyone’s linky party, megabites notwithstanding!
After you link to a blog linky party, showing what you’ve done that week (and not naming it Mary), you are then supposed to “grab the button” from their blog and post it on your own blog.
Trying to get someone’s button to add to my own blog post, showing that I’d joined his or her linky party – trauma! I’d click on the actual button, then come back to my blog and - nothing. I saw all those ridiculous letters in the box below the button on the linky party blog, but they meant nothing to me. I left ‘em alone.
Until the same blog tutor helped me understand about putting the letters in my blog post under HTML. They look like this:
<a href="http://bec4-beyondthepicketfence.blogspot.com/ " target="_blank"><img border="0" alt="Beyond The Picket Fence" src="http://i454.photobucket.com/albums/qq266/bec8257/button2.jpg%22/%3E%3C/a>
Voila. Linky button shows up on my blog. Sigh.
Living and learning in the fast lane, people – I’m getting there!
One night I called my friend Jennifer – desperately begging her to get help for me from her husband, who designs web pages by day. He, from the pity of his heart, glanced at my blog and gave me two words of advice.
Theme.
Organize.
I had no idea what he was talking about. I thanked them and quickly hung up, feeling very, very dumb.
One night, in complete despair, feeling like an old, overwhelmed woman, I removed every post from my blog. I destroyed my own blog. Blew it up, so to speak.
I know, crazy right?
But really, you shouldn’t overwhelm your elders. I speak on behalf of all of us. And I was truly overwhelmed.
A few days later, I missed my blog. I missed my posts. I felt very sad about my blog, now long gone. I wanted it back. Sniff.
Mr. Redo came through for me – he found most of my (deleted) posts somewhere out there in Internet land, having been cached (please, can we not go there?!). He pulled some of them back onto my empty blog and gave it a bit of life again.
During the short non-blog period, I realized what my friend’s husband meant when he said Theme.
I realized my blog (Looking Up) had the theme “answers to prayer.”
And that the posts I occasionally listed, about home décor, were an entirely different theme.
That’s when I spun off that information into a new blog I titled Redo 101.
That’s when I spun off that information into a new blog I titled Redo 101.
Mr. Redo showed me how to “organize” my blog by adding “tab posts” which read across the top of my blog, just under the blog title. If someone wants to read about a recipe, they click “Cooking.” Or “Paint Redo” to see a lovely aqua table.
still love that aqua table :)
Organization! I got it! I was finally organized by subject within my blog!
still love that aqua table :)
Organization! I got it! I was finally organized by subject within my blog!
Then I saw a blog post about beginning blogging and growing a blog. I emailed the blogger and shared my elderly struggles. What a dear. She e-mailed advice on general blogging topics, then looked over my blog and offered numerous ideas for improving the style, color, and location of items on my blog. I dutifully obeyed each of her instructions, and I agree that my blog looks better.
Leave it to me to have to “redo” a Redo blog.
So now, if you’ll excuse me, I’ll get back to my normal blogging theme. And buttons and links, pictures and stories, organization and all things blog related – oh my!
Anyolder smarter bloggers out there? Any hints you'd like to pass along?
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